A Better Way: Words of Grace

Corrupt talk is rotten to the core (Ephesians 4:29) but has great appeal to the depths of our flesh (Ephesians 4:22). As such, it is so easy to fall into the deceptive trap of believing that a few loose words are “no big deal.”  In fact, the desires of our flesh long for just a few words of gossip like a delicious morsel at a five-star restaurant (Proverbs 26:22). But the end is death.

At its core, corrupt talk is a desire to exalt self against God. How do we know our progress in this demonic quest? We measure up against one another. It is subtle, but the negative word I share about another helps me add a new level to the platform that I am trying to build to God. “Did you hear that Bob can’t pay his mortgage anymore?” In other words, “But I can—see how hard I work.”

In some ways, our entire culture is built on corrupt talk. Gossip, slander, and grumbling are the American way. It is the air we breathe; it comes so naturally, but it grieves the Holy Spirit of God (Ephesians 4:30).

The Holy Spirit delights to teach the Christian the work of Christ that gives us rest and exalts Jesus. Corrupting talk, though, pulls eyes off the very One the Holy Spirit delights to glorify. Not only is the Spirit grieved but our hearts grow hard. We are to build up, but corrupt talk spreads like gangrene.

But there is a better way. We are all sinners in need of grace and God has given the grace in Christ. As we grow in gazing on the beauty of Jesus, corrupt talk will be exposed for what it is: anti-Christ babble. Why exalt self by spewing corrupt talk when exalting Jesus satisfies so deeply?

A heart enthralled with Jesus will soon lose the desire to tear down with corrupt lips. Conversely, a grace-soaked heart will produce grace-filled words. They will build up and glorify Christ. Gracious words will stand out like golden nuggets in a world where they are few and far between. They will open doors to thirsty souls and soothe like a cool rain that breaks a drought.

Choose the better way, dear friends. Be a builder and a grace-giver with your words. Be aware of the deceptive desires of the flesh that lead to corrupt speech, and keep clear of those who want to feed those desires. Christ fulfills so much more! Enjoy Him and let the grace flow!